Sama, Dhana, Bedha, Dhanda...
Sama, Dhana, Bedha, Dhanda... Have you heard these words anywhere? I recently heard them on a television movie. Though I have heard these words many times before, I was tempted to contemplate more about them this time. In any conflict, you should go in the same order, they say. Sama first, which means equality. Give the other person equal share or respect during negotiations. If that doesn't work, go for the next one - Dhana. Dhana means giving. Giving little more share... not giving up everything! If that also doesn't work, go for Bedha. Bedha means discrimination or warning. Start treating the other person differently and warn them that there is a limit to anything. When none of these work, what you should do is Dhanda. What is that? Take an iron rod and beat him on the head in a way that he would never be able to get up - to continue the conflict. But, be very careful about one thing - he also may have an iron rod with him. What if I go for the second one straight?...

It is amazing though :) And yes, you got to be attached, it's your work, a simple verse and yet so profound :)
ReplyDeleteOh! Thanks so much, Chintan.
ReplyDeleteu started blogging in 1995!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeletewell even if there is a gap of 3 years between this post & the next, it still is quite something
and firsts are always special - poem, love, job, whatever - small or big :)
Oh, no! I updated this recently with back-date. It was written in 95 so I am keeping that date itself (just not to lose track of the date written actually). I am porting lot more poems, essays and stories from my old diaries. I know, it's lil misleading but want to know later how mature I was in each phase of my life. :)
ReplyDeleteI am not so old to blogging... but only to writing... :)
Wow, marvelous blog layout! How long have you been blogging for?
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