Saturday, December 03, 2016


Why do you send human beings to destroy other Gods?

Thursday, November 03, 2016

Anniversary Musings

Is it your lover that gifts for your birthday as well as their birthday?
Then your love will be a success!

Is it your spouse that apologies for their mistake as well as your mistake?
Then your marriage will be a success! :P

Tuesday, August 30, 2016


Do they just see things?
Don't they also show many things!

Thursday, August 25, 2016


One came saying
He is hungry and he needs food

Another came saying
He is hungry and he will die of hunger

The first one got food
And the next one got death

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Physical Pain

There is a way to share the mental pain today
Will there be a technology some day to share the physical pain as well?
When that happens, what will happen?
Will relationships get closer and tighter than before?
Or will they start running away from each other?

Tuesday, August 16, 2016


If it keeps itching on the outer layer of your body it's skin disease! 
If it keeps itching inside your head it's mind disease!!

Thursday, April 14, 2016


Illiteracy is a disability!
Reading between lines is a disease!!

Sunday, March 13, 2016


Which is the best part of education? It is that teaches us habits that can change our lives, right! I learnt something of that sort in recent times and I have been jumping up and down in ecstasy after learning it - in last few weeks. What is that? Is insomnia an issue in your life? Are you someone who can't fall asleep as soon as you fall on your bed? If so, this is for you. It is the remnants of the thoughts from the day that doesn't allow people to sleep peacefully in the night. It is just like the background processes that run in a computer. Dr. Weil has a solution for this problem. It helps us fall asleep just like our computer that hibernates as soon as we press the power button without being worried about the processes running in the background (I can see that someone is controlling their urge to say, "No, it's not any Dr. Weil's. It's an invention of our own forefathers from thousands of years back". Whatever!). I want to share it here because I believe that this practice can change many people's lives just like the way it did mine.

Nothing. It's a simple breathing exercise. You just have to do it four times after you get to your bed. You will see how you get hijacked to the world of peaceful and blissful sleep from your chronic insomniac troubles from today. It's very very simple. It's called 4-7-8 technique. All you have to do is... you have to inhale for four seconds silently, hold your breath for seven seconds and exhale it loudly for eight seconds. You will get a fantastic yawn before the fourth time. When you enjoy that first yawn, you will thank Dr. Weil and me with an eternal indebtedness. I think that thankfulness of yours is worth a thousand years of living on this planet!!! It really worked for me. I am sure it will work for you as well. It should. Even if it doesn't, don't worry. It is said that it starts working over time. As they say, practice will make you perfect (in sleeping only!). If it doesn't work even then, I can only feel so sorry for you!!! If it works and you feel like jumping up and down like I did after the first blissful night, just come here and drop a comment below this post. I will have a great deal of satisfaction, thinking that even I have changed many lives in my life, leading to a peaceful sleep tomorrow even without 4-7-8. Isn't that great?!

If you are someone who doesn't like shortcuts to attain anything including peaceful sleep, please excuse me this time. I will come back to you some other time with techniques that can impress you!!!

Friday, February 26, 2016

The Pain of Separation

The pain of separation is like that of skin disease... 
The memories of togetherness are the fingers that scratch and soothe...

Thanks to the three days of travel to Netherlands...

Sunday, February 21, 2016

International Mother Language Day

Heard it was International Mother Language Day today. I am not very fond of this kind of days that are celebrated every second day on calendar. But isn’t it good if that can result in something good?! That way, we shall welcome and celebrate this day. All over the world, most of the countries are language-based. So that makes those languages safe. India is perhaps the only big country, which has so many languages and so plural. I am not sure if we really understand the importance of plurality of a nation for it to remain one nation forever. For some reason, we Indians don’t understand that the right to learn, speak and be able to work in one’s own mother language is one of the top most fundamental rights. Most educated Indians think it’s narrow-mindedness to ask for education and job in mother language. India perhaps is the only nation on this planet that has such a colonial mentality even after so many decades of self-rule. On the other hand, these elitists think that we would become a superpower on the day when everyone in this country speaks, learns and works in English. Which superpower in the world is speaking someone else’s language and calling itself a superpower?! It is only the slaves that have to learn the master’s language and not the other way around ever! It is such an irony that even this basic thing is incomprehensible to our English-educated elite. Is it just colonial hangover? Hangover should subside over time. This is increasing by the day. What is it then? Even the cultural police who talk about ancient India’s heritage and things that have to be revived for India’s resurgence conveniently ignore language from their list for some reason. Something fishy here! Aren't we hypocrites if we just speak about one thing and ignore the other that has more heritage value? Some of those even go to the next level and say “One nation! One language!!” I can’t understand this broad-mindedness with my limited intelligence. Be it English or something else, the moment we lose our fundamental right to speak, learn and do business in our mother language, we qualify to be just slaves. I don’t know when we the citizens of this superpower nation will understand this politics. This doesn’t mean we should become fanatics or think only our language is the best in the world and all other languages are inferior to ours or anything of that sort. Jingoism in any form anywhere will only kill its practitioners. It’s not even love for one’s language that I am talking about. It’s about being aware of one’s own rights and thinking in those lines.

Also, we can never become as strong as English themselves in English. It’s not our language and we can never become themselves. We should understand this first. It may be possible for a portion of the population that has generally been good in learning other languages and mastering them. But for the entire nation, if that’s what we want to suggest, we are destined to fail. The whole nation can never get that broadminded to become American or British or whatever. When that happens that won’t be called broad-mindedness either.

If this day can help us understand all this, let’s celebrate this day too – International Mother Language Day! Long live mother languages… Not for the livelihood of few men who drink fanatic blood… But for all of our lives… Not just mine or yours… Everyone’s!!!

Sunday, January 24, 2016

My Dear Friend and Brother Purushothaman!!!

My dear friend and brother Purushothaman,
In next few hours, you would have physically left all of us. But you will live in many of our hearts forever. We may not be able to retain the same pain and distress forever but all of us will keep thinking of you very often or some of us at least once in a while. Everyone will have their own reason to remember you. I have mine as well. Personally, for me, this is the closest untimely death I have seen in my life. Most of us would have had an experience of losing a close friend in school days. But I have never had one. You are not my childhood friend, you are not my school mate, you are not my college mate, or you are not even my bachelorhood friend. However, you had a better place in my heart than many of those friends. The only reason for that is, your innocence and credulity. That is the reason why I had an opportunity to stay with you during my last couple of weeks in Singapore after leaving my family in India. It’s those two weeks of closeness with you that has broken me more now.

Everyone likes a particular virtue in others. One such virtue that attracts me towards people is their credulity. The world has hardly anyone who doesn’t like credulous people. But not everyone consciously chooses to have such people in their life. We worked for the same company. But there was nothing that united us from work perspective. It’s the desk that I got next to yours in our workplace that brought us closer first. We weren’t together for even a year. However, we continued to be in touch even after I left Singapore. Wherever I am, you called me to speak about every good thing that happened in your life as well as the minor issues that you had in your work life. All those celebrations and frustrations are lying meaningless next to your body today!

The most frequent thing that we talked about in our discussions was about being good in this bad world. Even your death looks like an answer to that.

It was when my son was born… I used to often tell you, “In this cruel world, which is going to get crueler, I have given birth to another child!” You would always reply, “Boss, how did we manage to live in this world? The same way, they will learn to live their lives too. Leave it!” Even now when I am overly worried, I think of those words. Today, I stand stranded losing a real good brother to the same land that gave birth to my son.

When the news of your death came, many people said, “God likes to keep good people with him”. My relationship with God is a confused one. I don’t have the ability to understand His logics. But your death seems to prove it right. I am not sure how true this is – but I somehow feel that it’s the good people who have untimely death most times. Maybe because this world will harass them more, they are taken away from it!

Maybe because you and my wife were born on the same day, I would always see herself in you when I come to office and yourself in her when I go home. I think I have told you about this a couple of times. It’s the same credulity to believe everyone as good and the denial to even think about other people’s ill intentions, which any common man would easily understand. As much as it irritates me, I admire you for that too.

I always felt proud of myself whenever you would tell me with your standard – innocent smile, “Boss, I don’t like to think too much about anything. You are trying to spoil me!” I am still unable to figure out how someone who was so casual about life, who never liked to get stressed over worldly things had a burst in a vein that went to his brain.

We have all heard this and read many times, “life is an illusion”, “nothing is permanent in life”, etc. But this is the first time I realize it so hard. We realize only when such things happen in our close circles right! I never used to bother about the theories of what happens to one’s spirit or soul after-death and all that. I would always think, it’s the same thing that happens to the spirit of a machine that stops working or that of the chicken or goat that gets slaughtered for our food. But when I heard about your brain death, I couldn’t control myself from thinking of what would have happened to your spirit or soul.

When I heard about your death, I had a strange confusing feeling. On one side, it felt like a loss of a brother. On another, when I thought of your young wife who came with you to Singapore with so many dreams about her life, it was like that of a brother whose sister lost everything all of a sudden. I am sure we could have been of some help to your suffering family along with all other friends if we had been in Singapore at this hour of grief. More than myself, I am sure my wife would have been of great support to your wife.

On the night before the official declaration of your death, when I heard your parents and wife were begging their God for your return, I had this thought, which I have never had in my life – ‘If I also go and beg the God like them throughout this night, will he get up and come to life tomorrow morning???’ Though not so much, all over the world, for the last one week, there were many good souls that sincerely prayed for your return. But we didn’t get an answer for that.

I want to cry like mad and I am not able to do that. But when you were brain dead itself, some friends had posted “RIP” on Facebook. The first time when I saw that, I had a few drops of tears edging from my eyes. After that, every time I saw your photo or heard about you or your family members who were struggling to save you, I got a few drops of tears edging out the same way. All days are filled with your thoughts intermittently. I wake up every half an hour in the nights. I see your face inside my eyes. I don’t feel like wiping the few drops and try to continue my sleep. I wake up again and try to sleep again. This cycle continued for two days. After it was confirmed that you were no more, even these feelings are going down. These feelings and memories will fade away slowly over time. That’s the reason I want to write everything that goes through my mind right now.

When you were on your deathbed, the number of people who were running from pillar to post to save your live and those who prayed for your return shows the quality of life you lived. As far as I could make out from what I heard, you must not have had much of physical pain. Even that, according to the philosophies we have heard, is an answer to the kind and caring life that you led.

You often told me that you wanted to educate at least one poor child with your money. I am not sure how many people had an opportunity to see this face of yours. But I am sure you would have told this to at least your close friends and family members. I have seen you stranded with no money for even basics after giving out everything you had including your ring and chain to pledge to your friends for their unnecessary expenses. A person like you not being able to live in this world raises more questions on the philosophies we have heard.

Finally, when I left Singapore, you came to the airport to see me off. You were standing in the same place waving your hand in your own style until I went away from your sight. At that minute, I was thinking about the next opportunity for us to meet. We talked about meeting in Bangalore and then in your wedding. Nothing worked out. I always used to think I had someone in Singapore whenever I would go there in future. Today, everything is shattered. You have left us breaking the hearts of mine and more severely many others’ now. I pray that may all those who are affected by your death directly or mentally come out of it as early as possible. This world should see many more Purushothamans! At least I should have many more Purushothamans in my life!! All of them should live much much longer and make this world a far better place!!!

You won’t know that you were one of them who inspired me to write this small poetry in my own language… All I can dedicate for you today is this! Goodbye my dear friend!! The friend you saw off from Singapore airport is seeing you off from this world’s airport, continuously waving my hand, until you go out of my sight… We will surely meet again! (#Tears)

*** Good People
Out of self-pity
Every time
I conclude
This is not a good people’s world

Someone like you comes in my life
And proves to me
I am not as good as them

And I should continue to be at least as good as what I am today!

Thursday, January 14, 2016

A good business opportunity for Facebook and Google

I see a good business opportunity for Facebook and Google. All over the world, all the most important news are hidden by the useless noise created by the paid media. Today, individuals use Facebook and other social media to bring out some of those news that are consciously ignored or suppressed by the media. Going one step ahead, what Facebook and Google can do in future is that they can systematically bring out those news in a much more structured manner and publish them to their users so that the real important news would come out and those who make their living out of lying will lose their relevance slowly. It may not be possible overnight though. With sustained effort, they can make it possible!

Mark Zuckerberg and Sundar Pichai - Are you game???


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